I’m Ilona. I’m a spiritual life coach and the creator of InnerSoulstice. If you’re here I believe your soul guided you.
This space was created for your growth your clarity and your awakening. It is a home for anyone who feels called to heal evolve and reconnect with who they truly are.
My mission is to help as many souls as I can rise into their highest potential.
I hold a degree in psychology and a certified spiritual coaching qualification and the challenges I’ve lived through have enriched my understanding of human behavior healing and spiritual growth.
I have spent many years guiding people through emotional and spiritual transitions and my work with Soul Contract Numerology has helped people understand their patterns with precision and step into deeper alignment with who they came here to be.
The same relationship dynamics.
The same self-doubt before big decisions.
The same emotional patterns you can't seem to break, no matter how hard you try.
You're not broken.
You're not lacking willpower.
You're simply running on old programs
I'm Ilona de Jong.
I help people like you decode the invisible blueprint behind your repeating patterns — and give you the grounded, nervous-system tools to actually rewrite them. Not just understand them. Change them.
If you're ready for personalised support, this is your path forward.
In a 1:1 Soul Contract Reading & Coaching session, we go beyond the surface. Together we explore the deeper layers of your unique soul blueprint, uncovering exactly how it's shaping your patterns, relationships and decisions right now. From there, we work on practical, embodied tools to shift what's been keeping you stuck.
You can begin with a single session for immediate clarity, or step into a coaching package for deeper, sustained transformation, so you walk away feeling grounded, empowered and certain about your next chapter.
If you've tried therapy, read all the books and still feel stuck in the same cycles... This is your next step.
Do you feel like you're living the same year over and over again?
Clarity for your soul. Gentle support for your nervous system.
Do you feel like you're living the same year over and over again?
The same relationship dynamics.
The same self-doubt before big decisions.
The same emotional patterns you can't seem to break,
no matter how hard you try.
You're not broken.
You're not lacking willpower.
You're simply running on old programs
I'm Ilona de Jong.
I help people like you decode the invisible blueprint behind your repeating patterns — and give you the grounded, nervous-system tools to actually rewrite them. Not just understand them. Change them.
If you're ready for personalised support, this is your path forward.
In a 1:1 Soul Contract Reading & Coaching session, we go beyond the surface. Together we explore the deeper layers of your unique soul blueprint, uncovering exactly how it's shaping your patterns, relationships and decisions right now. From there, we work on practical, embodied tools to shift what's been keeping you stuck.
You can begin with a single session for immediate clarity, or step into a coaching package for deeper, sustained transformation, so you walk away feeling grounded, empowered and certain about your next chapter.
If you've tried therapy, read all the books and still feel stuck in the same cycles... This is your next step.
Step 1 — Your Soul Contract Reading We begin by exploring your unique soul blueprint:
The deeper patterns, gifts and contracts you came into this life carrying. This isn't about prediction. It's about recognition. Seeing yourself clearly, often for the first time.
Step 2 — Uncovering What's Keeping You Stuck:
Together we identify the specific emotional patterns, belief systems and recurring dynamics that keep showing up in your relationships, decisions and sense of direction. We name them, trace them and understand where they come from.
Step 3 — Rewriting the Program:
Using grounded, nervous-system based coaching tools, we move from insight into actual change. Not just understanding your patterns, but shifting them at the level where they live, so you can show up differently in your life.
What working with me looks like
Step 1 — Your Soul Contract Reading We begin by exploring your unique soul blueprint:
The deeper patterns, gifts and contracts you came into this life carrying. This isn't about prediction. It's about recognition. Seeing yourself clearly, often for the first time.
Step 2 — Uncovering What's Keeping You Stuck:
Together we identify the specific emotional patterns, belief systems and recurring dynamics that keep showing up in your relationships, decisions and sense of direction. We name them, trace them and understand where they come from.
Step 3 — Rewriting the Program:
Using grounded, nervous-system based coaching tools, we move from insight into actual change. Not just understanding your patterns, but shifting them at the level where they live, so you can show up differently in your life.
What working with me looks like